Romantic, family, and friendship advice — explained clearly, calmly, and honestly. Because feeling confused about relationships is… usual.
Trusted by thousands looking for clarity — not judgment.
You're not alone. These feelings are more common than you think.
You replay conversations long after they're over — every word, every pause. It's exhausting, but you can't stop.
You don't know if you're asking for too much, or settling for too little. The line between reasonable and unreasonable feels blurred.
You explain how you feel, but nothing really changes. The same patterns keep repeating.
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Share what's going on and how it feels. It takes less than two minutes.
Clear, actionable guidance tailored to your situation — not generic platitudes.
Continue the conversation with Usual.ai whenever you need clarity or perspective.
Not platitudes. Real tools for real situations.
Sometimes we're too close to a situation to see it clearly. Get an outside perspective that helps you understand the dynamics at play.
Struggling to find the right words? We'll help you articulate your feelings in a way that actually gets through.
Not just "communicate better" — actual steps you can take today to improve your relationship.
Learn where your limits should be and how to maintain them without guilt or conflict.
Sometimes you just need someone to tell you that what you're feeling makes sense. We're here for that too.
Relationships often repeat cycles. We'll help you spot them before they cause more damage.
Real experiences from real users.
"I was going in circles in my head about whether to end my relationship. After one conversation, I finally had clarity. Not because it told me what to do — but because it asked the right questions."
"My mother-in-law was driving me crazy and I felt like I couldn't talk to anyone about it. This gave me actual scripts to use. The holiday dinner went so much better."
"I thought I was being dramatic about my friend's behavior. Turns out I wasn't — and having someone validate that gave me the confidence to set boundaries."
Whatever's on your mind about the people in your life.
No — and we're upfront about that. Usual.ai is AI-powered relationship guidance, not therapy. We can help you think through situations, understand patterns, and figure out what to say. But if you're dealing with mental health issues, trauma, or need professional support, please reach out to a licensed therapist.
Absolutely. Your conversations are encrypted and never shared. We don't sell data or use your stories for training. What you share here stays here.
That's totally fine. Start with our quick questionnaire — it takes 2 minutes and helps us understand your situation. From there, you can just talk naturally about what's bothering you.
Yes! Romantic partners, family members, friends, exes, coworkers — any relationship where you need clarity or guidance. Different relationships have different dynamics, and we adapt to each.
Friends mean well, but they're biased. They take your side (or sometimes the other person's). Usual.ai gives you balanced perspective without judgment, available whenever you need it, and remembers everything about your situation.
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